As a mature woman, I tell you a few safe ways for inexperienced brothers, and it won’t be too expensive.

Avoid a few pits first:

1. It’s best not to give plush toys! Especially big ones! Unless she has made it clear that she wants them very much! Small and delicate ones are OK, but they are acceptable as daily small gifts, and it is not appropriate for major anniversaries.

2. Unless you are a high-level handmade expert, or a professional-level artist or a professional-level designer, don’t give her anything you handmade!! Especially the kind that buys parts and processes them into finished products and then sends them out, absolutely not! The main pleasure of this kind of thing is in the production process. After it is done, it will actually be boring. If you leave it at home, it will get in the way and you will give it away?? No sincerity no ornamental value, big pit!! Do not send it!!

3. Jewelry and cosmetics can be sent, but let her choose by herself!! Pick by herself!!!! Don’t give surprises! Trust yourself! You can’t pick what she wants! It’s far better to let her choose by herself! And it’s very fun to choose among a bunch of favorite things, the girl will like it.

4. Don’t send clothes. You have to give the same item as before.

Okay, the above common pits are avoided, let’s talk about choosing gifts.

There are a lot of cute gifts in the answer, but! It’s not very useful, because every girl likes different things, how can it be guaranteed to be delivered to her heart without being too expensive? There is a safe way: give her things that she often uses but is reluctant to buy.

This price is easy to adjust. If you are a local tyrant, then… then of course you don’t need to read this answer.

If you are an ordinary wage earner and a student party, you can refer to this buying method. For example, if you only want to spend 500 yuan, it is not very wise to buy a bag, because it is also a mid-bottom price. But if it is a lipstick of 500 yuan, it is much more high-end, and you can show off between the ladies and sisters. 1000 yuan to buy a mobile phone, I can’t get it, but buying a headset is more awesome. 300 yuan to buy cosmetics, not very good, but buy a very tall water cup (not a thermos cup!), you can use it every day, and you can crush a batch of similar products in your dormitory or office. Buying a handbook is also very good. This way of buying, one is more memorable, and the other is practical. Then, spend some time on the packaging, find a good wrapping paper, and match it with a flower. It must be more delicate, and match it well with the packaging. Write a few words. Don’t write too literary and too pretentious, simple and sometimes more miraculous.

The most important thing about the above gifts is

You should pay attention to

at ordinary times, what she uses the most in these ordinary items, what she cares about the most, and even what she is secretly comparing with her roommates and colleagues. Since the money is small, let’s think more about it.

Finally, there is one more thing to pay special attention to!

If this girl asks for something with a price that exceeds your monthly income, seriously consider the possibility of breaking up.

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Some friends still ask, what should I buy? Can I buy this?

Knock on the blackboard!! Please re-read the content of the previous paragraph of “special attention”!

your mileage may vary

Ah! I’m talking about the

basic principle

, in

this principle, your mileage may vary!

You don’t need to spend a lot of money, but your mind has to be seen by her. What is mind? It’s what she cares about, you have to know, you have to pay attention. As long as you spend your mind, even if you guess wrong, she won’t be angry. For example: she likes comics and often talks to you excitedly about a character in a comic, and then you buy her a figure or peripheral (genuine) of this character on your anniversary, so even if she actually wants a necklace, she won’t be angry, and she will probably be happy. Why? It means that you have her in your heart, what she said and her hobbies are all in your heart. It means that when she is babbling in your ear, you are really listening when you smile and nod, not because you have been wandering too far.

Of course, you may say, no, I tried my best to buy it, but she was unhappy and disliked it, and ignored me for three days! Um… If so, it is possible that there is no problem with your gift, but the person who received it.

If anyone reads it, I will write down a little story about my husband and I giving gifts, and give two small chestnuts.

– – The dividing line of sugar-fried chestnuts —————

I came back with two catties of chestnuts to answer the question.

First of all, my husband and I are both working-class people, we know each other on blind dates, and my husband is a straight man of steel. I am not a beautiful man (of course, this is my modesty!), so the chestnuts are very plain.

When it comes to giving gifts, my husband has always felt that he is not my “opponent”. This is mainly because he has been unforgettable about the first gift I gave him. (On the importance of timing) As for me, if I have any advantages, I may be good at listening. We met on a blind date, and he was very satisfied. I was noncommittal and felt that I had to observe it again. But he had already identified me as his intimate lover from the very beginning. He talked to me about everything on his mind, and he did not shy away from good things, embarrassing things, sad things, and proud things (~_~;) So, when the first Valentine’s Day half a year later, I felt that at least this little brother was real and planned to get along in the future, so it was my turn to show a little sincerity.

I dug up a bunch of things he told me, and remembered that he once said that when he was a child, he felt that people with watches in movies were very stylish! But I felt that this thing was too far away from him when he was young, and it was impossible to reach. When he grew up, he felt that it was too different to wear it, and it was too exaggerated to buy it. He was afraid that people would laugh at him, so he could only rest assured. But he still likes it, and he still thinks it’s so stylish!

Then he will like what he buys, isn’t that about to come out!

But it doesn’t work yet, I can’t just give it to him like this.

First of all, I’m sure he would never expect me to give him a pocket watch, because it was just one of the countless things he told me a few months ago. Although I found it to be the softest one in his heart, he didn’t find it himself. So, I’m going to give him a little drama.

So I intentionally or unintentionally revealed that I was going to buy him a gift for Valentine’s Day, and said that I couldn’t tell you! What about the mysterious gift! Straight brother said he was happy! Every day I jumped to test what gift it was. While I didn’t say it, I “secretly” looked at the tie, and “secretly” inquired what kind of tie he liked. He was so proud that he felt that he had seen through my little thought, and was very considerate not to say it, waiting for my tie proudly.

Valentine’s Day, make an appointment to meet. I arrived for a while first. After a while, I saw this man in a suit and no tie… (explain, the company he was working for at that time required suits and ties every day, either uniforms or formal wear)

I watched him sit down happily and asked me, can you say it now, what gift? I smiled and asked him, “How about a tie?” He was very happy ヽ(○^㉨^)ﾉ“ I guessed it long ago!! Haha!! You see, I didn’t wear a tie today! I’m smart! Hahahaha! But it doesn’t matter, you don’t have to be depressed, I’m very happy! I’m happy with anything I give! Your gift must be very good, hahahaha… “

I took out a box while he was still free, and handed it to the straight man. The straight man was tearing the wrapping paper while hahahaha, and suddenly whispered, why is this packaging? Then he quickly looked up at me, and said in surprise,” It’s not a tie? “

He didn’t haha, and continued to unpack curiously, and the pocket watch appeared.

A few seconds of silence.

What did he say after the silence… To be honest, I forgot. I only remember that this gift was far more effective than I had hoped. I just remember him lowering his head, looking carefully over and over, and whispering, thank you, I really didn’t expect it, thank you… I really didn’t expect it… I don’t think he was crying…

A few days later, he mustered up the courage to sneak it to work. When he came to pick me up after get off work, he took out the dial from his pocket and pressed it, “Pop!” The cover popped open, he pretended to look at the watch, but looked at me unkindly, and asked, “Will people laugh at me?” I said, “Not funny, very fan, special! Don’t! handsome!”

He has been carrying it for many years.

Up until now, if I gave him something he liked, he would always look up and sigh after a long time of happy chatter: “But I still can’t catch up with the pocket watch you gave me that year, hey! That’s the best gift I’ve ever received! Thank you wife!”

The above is my gift-giving story of “debut is the peak”.