Generally, people who attend the funeral have to send a wreath or a flower basket, and some people also carry a bundle of paper money.
After arriving at the bereaved master’s house, relatives will generally be issued filial piety cloth or filial piety clothes; those who are generally friends will be issued black armbands to wear.
When going to the funeral home, there is a farewell ceremony to the body. At this time, in addition to wearing filial piety clothes and armbands, some people also need to bring a flower. Place it next to the body of the deceased. Express your condolences.
How to write a gift to the deceased?
The simplest way to write a funeral gift white matter red envelope is six words:
Write large characters in the middle – Founder
Small print on the lower left – a certain
Or:
(write the name on the upper right) A certain age
(lower left gift giver name) A certain respect
Funeral gift gold envelope:
Generally, plain paper and white paper are used to seal the package, and white envelopes are commonly used. Funeral gifts follow the principles of gifts:
1. According to the folk saying, the singular is better: avoid even numbers because “double” and injury are homophonic and mean sad;
2. Add 1 to the mantissa: Add 1 to the mantissa, on the one hand, it means reluctance to part, expressing mourning for the deceased;
On the other hand, because according to traditional Chinese customs, relatives and friends who attend funerals will receive a good instrument containing one yuan coins and candy from the deceased’s family. Once the silk gold sent by relatives and friends is an integer, after deducting one yuan from the good instrument, the mantissa of silk gold becomes nine, resulting in a long and unlucky funeral. Therefore, one yuan should be added to the silk gold in particular.
My girlfriend’s grandfather passed away. If you ask me to go, do I need to bring anything? What to bring?
I have experience with this. When my daughter-in-law’s grandmother passed away, I visited the door for the first time. Money must be brought, including money, wreaths, firecrackers, etc. Ask my girlfriend about the local customs. You can buy whatever you want. In addition, bring more cigarettes and send them when you see people. Anyway, those who come are relatives. If you don’t know what to call them, you can ask them. If you have asked them to remember, it is a test of memory. The most important thing is to ask about customs. If you have seen her parents and are familiar with her parents, you will listen to the arrangements of future father-in-law and mother-in-law. What to buy, how many members, whether to participate in the funeral process, etc.! The most important thing is to smoke, definitely leave a good
