Boys: basketball, basketball shoes, mouse, keyboard, tablet computer, etc.
Girls: laptop, skin care products, schoolbags, earphones, tablet computer, etc.
Chinese people pay attention to giving gifts:
Gifts should be light and righteous
Gifts should be given considering specific situations and occasions. Generally, when going to a private family banquet, you should bring some small gifts for the hostess, such as bouquets, fruits, native products, etc. If you have children, you can give toys and candy. When invited to a wedding, in addition to art decorations, you can also give bouquets and practical items. During the New Year and Christmas, you can generally send calendars, wine, tea, candy, cigarettes, etc.
Grasp the timing and way of giving gifts
Gifts should generally be given face to face. But sometimes you can also send them in advance when you attend a wedding. Gifts to celebrate festivals and give annual gifts can be sent to your door or mailed. At this time, you should attach the business card of the giver with the gift, or you can write a congratulatory message by hand, and put it in an envelope of the same size. The name of the recipient is indicated on the envelope and pasted on the top of the gift wrapping skin. Under normal circumstances, it is not appropriate to give gifts to only one person in a group in public. Because the recipient will feel bribed and fooled, and it will make those who do not receive gifts feel neglected and despised. Giving gifts to people who are close to each other should not be done in public, so as not to leave the public with the feeling that your relationship is entirely supported by material things. Only special gifts that are light on love and righteousness, and gifts that express special emotions, are suitable for giving in public. Because at this time the public has become a witness to your sincere friendship. Such as a special souvenir, etc.
Be friendly and don’t lose your words
When giving gifts, pay attention to attitude, action and language expression. Peaceful and friendly, generous actions accompanied by courtesy language expression are what the recipient is willing to accept. The practice of being a thief and quietly placing the gift under the table or in a corner of the room will not only fail to achieve the purpose of the gift, but will even be the opposite. In our country, it is generally customary to say too modestly when giving gifts: “Small gift! Small gift!” “Only a little meaning” or “I’m sorry…” This practice is best avoided. Of course, if you say in an almost proud tone when giving: “This is a very valuable thing!” It is also inappropriate. When introducing the gift, you should emphasize your good will and affection for the recipient, rather than the actual value of the gift. Otherwise, you will fall into the point of heavy gift and light righteousness, and even make the other party feel like accepting bribes.
Taking into account customs and customs
Giving gifts according to people and circumstances is one of the norms of social etiquette, and the choice of gifts should also meet this norm. The choice of gifts should be treated differently for different recipients. Generally speaking, for the poor, it is better to benefit; for the rich, it is better to be exquisite; for lovers, lovers, lovers, commemorative; for friends, it is better to be interesting; for the elderly, it is better to be practical; for children, it is better to be enlightened and novel; for foreign guests, it is better to be characteristic.
Gift-giving must master the principle of avoiding taboos
For example, there is a saying in China that “good things come in pairs”, so all gifts for great celebrations and great joys are double taboo, but Cantonese people are taboo: “4” is an even number, because in Cantonese, “4” sounds like “death”, which is unlucky. No matter how good it is, white means purity and flawlessness, but Chinese people are more taboo, because in China, white is often the color of great sorrow and poverty. Similarly, black is also regarded as unlucky, the color of disaster, and the color of mourning. Red, on the other hand, is a symbol of joy, peace, and celebration, and is widely loved by people. In addition, our people often pay attention to not giving clocks to the elderly, and not giving pears to couples or lovers, because “giving clocks” and “sending the end”, “pears” and “Li” are homophonic, which is unlucky. Also, if you can’t send medicines to healthy people, you can’t send personal supplies to friends of the opposite sex, etc.
What are the taboos and tricks of gift-giving:
It is a traditional Chinese habit to exchange gifts, but if you give the same gifts year after year, it is too unoriginal. The giver will inevitably be boring, and the recipient will not be moved. What’s the point of such gift-giving? I think the most important principle of gift-giving is to be original and different from tradition. Of course, ingenious gifts are by no means something that can be bought in a short time, and must be collected when traveling or shopping. There are also emergency measures, that is, to make gifts by yourself. In addition, gifts should be as suitable as possible to the needs of the gift recipient. I think gift recipients can be divided into three categories:
