First, useful gifts are not as good as useless gifts.
It is recommended that you do not give things that are too practical, such as clothes, perfumes, backpacks, etc., unless you are absolutely sure about your taste.
Everyone has a lot of these things, and if they are not outstanding enough, it is easy to be drowned in his many daily necessities.
If he does not agree with your taste, it may leave him with a bad impression of a “layman”.
It is best to give gifts that are “four things that cannot be dropped”, that is: you can’t eat them, use them, give them away, and throw them away.
Such a gift is the most suitable for expressing one’s heart, and it is also the easiest to make the recipient feel happy, so that they will be grateful to you and will be unforgettable for a long time.
From the perspective of the recipient, what is useful to them is not necessarily what makes them happy, but from the perspective of the giver.
The purpose of giving gifts is not to bring great practical value to the recipient, but to make them appreciate you and remember you.
Second, unique, creative and personalized gifts are better.
Such a gift can not only surprise and move the recipient, but also make him feel that you have spent a lot of thought and energy to prepare this gift for him, and the purpose of giving gifts is this.
From this point of view, personalized handicrafts are a good choice.
For example, personalized cartoon statues made of soft pottery according to the photos of characters are popular with fashion people.
Its advantages are unique, can be stored permanently, and can be washed with water.
But the price is around 300 to 400 yuan, and a clear photo of the character is required, and it needs to be booked at least one week in advance.
There are also personalized comic portraits, personalized crystal statues, personalized puzzles, personalized watches, personalized necklaces, personalized T-shirts, personalized cups, and so on.
Third, the size of the big medium is not as large as the size of the small. That is to say, when giving gifts, choosing a more expensive gift in a less expensive gift category is better than choosing a cheaper gift in a more expensive gift category.
Fourth, saying that what you want is not as good as what you want. In fact, the purpose of giving gifts should not be to make the gift person get the greatest effect, but to improve your status in the eyes of the recipient to the greatest extent. Therefore, you should give something that people want to buy but can’t bear to buy, or something they want to buy but are too embarrassed to buy, to others or as a reward.
Fifth, it is better to have a choice than not to have a choice. Gifts should not be given choices. Although people will choose the gift that will bring them the greatest effect, many times this choice does not bring them the greatest satisfaction.
In some cases, choices can also have negative effects.
When the pros and cons of several gifts are not very different, giving any one item alone will give you more satisfaction than asking others to choose between two or even several items.
Don’t give your worries to others when giving gifts.