1 When wrapping the Bodhi bracelet, you need to use a paper plate. 2 First, place the paper plate on the table, then pass one end of the bracelet through the hole in the center of the paper plate, and then circle the bracelet around the edge of the paper plate until the length of the bracelet reaches the desired length. 3 When wrapping the Bodhi bracelet, you can choose to use beads of different colors or sizes to form different designs and patterns.
When handing knives to others, remember to hand the handle end of the knife. Is this considered cultured?
The so-called cultivation is the details:
1. When someone pours water for you, don’t watch it dry, but use a handrail to show politeness.
2. When someone talks to you, you must at least be able to answer, and you can’t say the previous sentence. You lost the next sentence, or just said ah ah ah, yes yes yes.
3. Don’t look directly at someone when they are staring at you, pretending not to notice.
4. A woman can’t ask a man for money with her palms up for the rest of her life.
5. When she exits after dinner, she says: “I’m done eating, you can use it slowly.”
6. It must be both hands to deliver water to someone.
7. Don’t tilt up the chair when sitting.
8. When eating, you should serve bowls, don’t pick and choose on the plate, and don’t hit the bowl with chopsticks.
9. Remember to close the door when you enter the door last.
10. Send someone away and say: “Walk slowly.”
11. Don’t shake your hands at will after washing your hands. Water will be thrown on people, which is very impolite.
12. When handing knives to others, remember to hand the handle.
13. Don’t expose other people’s shortcomings.
14. When listening to others, don’t look away, otherwise it will be very rude.
15. After pouring tea for others, don’t point the spout at others.
16. Stand and sit.
17. When you say it, you must do it. If you can’t do it, don’t promise.
18. When there are people in the house, go out and close the door lightly.
19. The world does not believe in tears.
20. When serving rice or tea to others, if there is a gap between people, don’t pass it in front of others, but bypass it from behind.
21. Learn to be gentle and learn to listen.
22. Go to someone else’s house, don’t sit on someone else’s bed.
23. Try not to make any noise when eating.
24. When picking up things or putting on shoes, squat down and don’t bend over and pout your butt.
25. When someone criticizes you, don’t argue first, even if he is wrong, and wait until everyone has calmed down before explaining.
26. Do things in moderation, whether it’s binge eating your favorite food or throwing a tantrum.
27. After dinner at a friend’s house, take the initiative to help wash the dishes and clean the table.
28. You will meet all kinds of people in your life. You can’t be in tune with everyone, but one thing is universal: how you treat others, others will treat you.
29. Don’t tell anyone your secret easily at any time.
30. There is no end to learning, not only to learn books, but also to learn how to treat people. Society is far more complicated than you think.
31. The bravest thing is to love life after recognizing the truth of life. Don’t be afraid of deception, but know that there is deception in the world.
32. Wipe the table in your own direction.
33. The first sentence when you call and answer the phone must be: “Hello!” When hanging up, if the other party is an elder or your boss, then wait for the other party to hang up before you hang up. If you are an elder or boss yourself, take the initiative to hang up first, and don’t let the person on the other side of the phone wait.
… (to be continued)