1. The best way to give gifts is to write blessings or thanks to the other party on a purely handmade and personalized blessing card, which can more move the other party and move their hearts.
2. In addition to writing blessing cards, you can also consider creating some situations, such as setting up a bunch of balloons, filling the entire gift room, etc., so that the other party can feel the surprise visually, especially this helps to make birthdays and festivals more memorable.
3. Some people like to collect gifts, and take this as an opportunity to gradually increase the meaning when giving gifts. For example, the first gift can be a small and fresh, the second one is a warm heart, and the last one is a big surprise. With the increase of gifts, the other party will gradually become more expectant, making the surprise more tense.
Gift-giving process?
1. Gift-giving time
Mid-Autumn Festival, Spring Festival, at this time, everyone often feels that the leader’s family is crowded, and there must be an endless stream of gift-giving people. So they simply don’t give it, so as not to crash and look ugly. In fact, every festive season, I miss my relatives. At this time, I should still go to the leader’s house to sit. (Just go a week in advance), even if you buy some fruit by the way to visit. It also shows a favor. Let the leader feel that you know the world and are not a nerd. Of course, don’t go to the leader’s house to sit often, that person is very annoying.
2. The weight of the gift
This is the key. If you don’t ask the leader for anything, but just communicate at ordinary times, then don’t give too heavy gifts, otherwise the leader will feel that it is difficult to choose whether to accept or not. If you have something to ask the leader, you can give a heavier gift. But you should also avoid cramming in a hurry, and only give heavy gifts when things are just around the corner, which makes the leader feel very abrupt.
3. Ways to give gifts
There are many ways to give gifts to people, such as coming to the door in person, working hours, asking people to transfer them, etc., but when giving gifts to leaders, they usually choose to go to the leader’s house in person, at seven or eight o’clock in the evening. Of course, special circumstances are treated specially.
4. The speech when giving gifts
This is the most difficult for many people who are new to the workplace. Giving gifts to leaders, how to say, will it be very embarrassing? I believe everyone has encountered such questions. Generally speaking, gifts that are not heavy should be put down directly when you enter the door, and don’t mention them when you go out. Everyone knows it. If it is a relatively expensive gift, if you have nothing to ask for, you must show it when you enter the door. If you have something to ask for, it is best to finish talking to the leader and explain it when you go out.
5. After giving a gift
Many people feel that after giving a gift, they just sit back and wait for the result. The plan is up to the person, and the success is up to the sky. In fact, this is not the case. After giving a gift, it is best to call or talk to the leader the next day, so that you can know from the leader’s words whether your things can be done. At that time, you can figure out the intention of the leader’s words and act according to the situation.