Mom said angrily; Mom said angrily; Mom said angrily; Mom said excitedly; Mom; Mom said happily; Mom said excitedly; Mother said with grievance; Mom said with satisfaction.
How does Mom say fill in the blanks? It’s cold, so you should wear more clothes.
“My mother told me gently,
Wear more clothes when the weather is cold.”
Other adjectives can also be used,
For example, kind,patient, …
Mom always tells me that Grandma is not good, and Grandma often tells me how Mom is. . .
Your focus is on the relationshipbetween you and your mother. Moreover, it is yourself who feels emotionally troubled atpresent, so it is most important to change your mentality.
First of all, you should accept your mother’s behavior.
Because every reason has a reason, only by listening carefully can you deeply understand the reasons and motives behind the mother complaining about her grandmother’s family every day. Because, both mother and grandma are your relatives, you can sort it out rationally from an objectivepoint of view toprepare for the next communication.
Secondly, my mother’s complaint is justpouring out, and she didn’t ask you to do anything about it. Therefore, you should show your understanding of your mother in her communication, bothpositive and negative, so that your mother can feel that you can understand her, so that she can trust you more and discuss this issue with you further.
Third, in thisprocess, you can act as apsychological counselor. If you find that your mother has obvious cognitive mistakes, which leads to her complaining behavior, you can intervene appropriately, but you mustpay attention to the methods and contents of your speech. After all, it is not aparticularly normal state for a mother to complain about grandma’s family every day. Even if there are many faults in grandma’s family, the focus atpresent is to let your mother and you live in negative emotions. Therefore, there should be appropriate intervention and treatment to improve the mother’s mood, so as to improve this behavior, and ultimately benefit you, your mother and even grandma’s family.
Thepoint is that you should bepatient with your mother.
In the same way, treat your grandmother in the same way.